Thursday, January 13, 2011

Mentoring For Success

A mentor is a woman role model from the community. A ‘role model’ is someone whom girls can admire and look up to because she leads a good life. A mentor encourages girls to stay in school and have aspirations for themselves beyond school. A mentor spends time with girls individually or in a group to make sure that they do well in school, are healthy and happy, and are helpful to their families and communities.

A mentor can be almost anyone—mother, young woman, religious leader, community leader, or professional woman in any field. A mentor may have been to a university or may only have primary schooling. A mentor has a real concern for the young women in the community. She builds trust. She speaks wisely and listens closely. She plans mentoring sessions and activities. A mentor is willing to do what she can to help girls succeed.

Mentoring gives girls the chance to spend time with a trusted adult who accepts them for who they are. A mentor praises girls when they do well in their studies. A mentor inspires girls to do their best and helps them to succeed. Girls who know about mentoring may be eager to have a mentor themselves. They may have questions about issues that they would not be able to ask anyone else, such as health, sex, boyfriends, school, work, and future goals and aspirations.

By Academy for Educational Development

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Destiny is our January MYGIFT Girl!

Destiny is our January MYGIFT Girl. She's 12 yrs. old and here's what she had to say about the January "National Mentoring Month" Workshop:



What did you learn at this month's workshop?


"That it is good to have a mentor."



One thing you liked about this month's workshop?

"We made posters for our mentors. I made my poster for my Mom, because she's my mentor."



Her favorite things:


Favorite Color: Blue

Favorite subject in school: Math

Favorite female singer: Rhianna

Favorite male singer: Trey Songz

Favorite rapper: Nikki Manaj

Favorite book: The First Part Last

Favorite outfit: Skinny Jeans

Rita's or Coldstone: Rita's

Pet Peeve:
Disrespectful People

Sierra is our December MYGIFT Girl

Sierra is our December MYGIFT Girl. She's 15 yrs. old and here's what she had to say about the December Workshop:


One thing you learned today that you didn't expect to learn by participating in this workshop?



"I learned that we can give to poor women."



Her favorite things:

Favorite Color: Blue
Favorite subject in school: Chorus
Favorite female singer: Ciara
Favorite male singer: Trey Songz
Favorite rapper: Nikki Manaj
Favorite book: Cat In The Hat
Favorite outfit: T-Shirt and Jeans
Rita's or Coldstone: Rita's
Pet Peeve:
Disrespectful People
HUMAN

There are people in the world,
Like torches in the night.
They light a path of hope
And stand for what is right.
They face adversity,
While others would despair.
They challenge us to be
What others never dared.

They are movers, believers, and healers.
They are lovers, they're fighters, and dreamers,
And they are human, so very human,
And it's human we're meant to be.

There are people in our world,
With passion in their eyes,
And wisdom on their lips,
And power in their lives.

They walk the journey, too.
The torrents have been crossed.
With mountains still to climb;
Their dream is never lost.

They are movers, believers, and healers.
They are lovers, they're fighters, and dreamers,
And they are human, so very human,
And it's human we're meant to be.

It's not for glory or power or gain;
It's not for that ego, the money or fame.
It's the present; it's for the future,
And for us to fan the flame.

Poetic Gift for December

The Light We Sought

Her Star Shines Bright
Both Day and Night
Sun and Moon Dare not Challenge
For as she Sleeps
Her Dreams so Sweet,
Her Life Held in the Balance
She seems so Strong
Her Heart Belongs
Soaring Higher on Silk Wings
She'll Make you Weep
Beauty so Sweet
She Makes the Angels Sing
But Loves Special Pain
And all its Gains
Can Blind us to our Fears
Suffer Not
The Light we Sought
Will Lead us from our Tears

~ Written By Connie ~

Friday, December 17, 2010

The Gift of Giving

Are you a giver?  Do you enjoying giving to others?  Do you give of yourself and your time freely, without delay or hesitation? 

Do you talk-the-talk or walk-the-walk?

Giving to others gives me a warm feeling inside, especially when I give of myself to the MYGIFT Girls every month.  Since MYGIFT started in 2007, each month, I tell the girls that it doesn’t matter, if I have one girl or 100 girls; I will go through with our entire agenda.  Well, last program year, we had one girl to show up for the entire day.  At first, I was in disbelief and I kept expecting the door to open and girls to walk in and say “Hi Miss Michelle”, I’m sorry for being late; however, that never happened.  We always prepare for 20 girls and we set up for at least 10 girls every month.  I have to be honest, I thought about asking her to call her mom to pick her up, but I kept hearing my own voice saying “No matter how many girls we have, we’re going through with our entire agenda”…so we did.  Nikki and I started the day, as if we had a room full of girls.  The young lady, D’Azanti, was a little puzzled, but she played along, because I guess she was expecting other girls to join her shortly…but they didn’t. 

The three of us had a great day; we watched a documentary called “The Souls of Little Black Girls”.  When we started watching the documentary, I was concerned that she would not be interested in spending the day with just two staff persons and I was right because she asked if she could leave early.  Initially, my heart sank, but I smiled and said “Yes, you can leave early”, immediately after I responded, I was worried that I might have answered too quickly, but I didn’t want her to think that she had to stay all day.  After the documentary, I told her that Nikki and I are going to stay until 3pm, so if she wants to stay with us and complete the workshop, she was welcomed to do so.  She immediately said that she really wanted to say, so she called her Mom back and told her that she was staying.  I stayed true to my word and we rolled out the entire agenda.  We gave Dee our undivided attention by answering all her questions about the documentary, as well as other questions she had about image and the importance of having a positive image.  We had Chipotle for lunch and Rita’s for desert.  She said that it was the best workshop ever for her and I had to agree, because it’s never about the number of girls that attend each month, it’s always about the quality of the curriculum that we prepare and how well we present it the girls. It’s about giving of yourself, so that you can pass the blessing forward. 

I learned a valuable lesson that day…be true to yourself and your commitment to giving to others.

Words of Inspiration by Mother Teresa


It’s not how much we give, but how much love we put into giving.