Thursday, January 13, 2011

Mentoring For Success

A mentor is a woman role model from the community. A ‘role model’ is someone whom girls can admire and look up to because she leads a good life. A mentor encourages girls to stay in school and have aspirations for themselves beyond school. A mentor spends time with girls individually or in a group to make sure that they do well in school, are healthy and happy, and are helpful to their families and communities.

A mentor can be almost anyone—mother, young woman, religious leader, community leader, or professional woman in any field. A mentor may have been to a university or may only have primary schooling. A mentor has a real concern for the young women in the community. She builds trust. She speaks wisely and listens closely. She plans mentoring sessions and activities. A mentor is willing to do what she can to help girls succeed.

Mentoring gives girls the chance to spend time with a trusted adult who accepts them for who they are. A mentor praises girls when they do well in their studies. A mentor inspires girls to do their best and helps them to succeed. Girls who know about mentoring may be eager to have a mentor themselves. They may have questions about issues that they would not be able to ask anyone else, such as health, sex, boyfriends, school, work, and future goals and aspirations.

By Academy for Educational Development

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Destiny is our January MYGIFT Girl!

Destiny is our January MYGIFT Girl. She's 12 yrs. old and here's what she had to say about the January "National Mentoring Month" Workshop:



What did you learn at this month's workshop?


"That it is good to have a mentor."



One thing you liked about this month's workshop?

"We made posters for our mentors. I made my poster for my Mom, because she's my mentor."



Her favorite things:


Favorite Color: Blue

Favorite subject in school: Math

Favorite female singer: Rhianna

Favorite male singer: Trey Songz

Favorite rapper: Nikki Manaj

Favorite book: The First Part Last

Favorite outfit: Skinny Jeans

Rita's or Coldstone: Rita's

Pet Peeve:
Disrespectful People

Sierra is our December MYGIFT Girl

Sierra is our December MYGIFT Girl. She's 15 yrs. old and here's what she had to say about the December Workshop:


One thing you learned today that you didn't expect to learn by participating in this workshop?



"I learned that we can give to poor women."



Her favorite things:

Favorite Color: Blue
Favorite subject in school: Chorus
Favorite female singer: Ciara
Favorite male singer: Trey Songz
Favorite rapper: Nikki Manaj
Favorite book: Cat In The Hat
Favorite outfit: T-Shirt and Jeans
Rita's or Coldstone: Rita's
Pet Peeve:
Disrespectful People
HUMAN

There are people in the world,
Like torches in the night.
They light a path of hope
And stand for what is right.
They face adversity,
While others would despair.
They challenge us to be
What others never dared.

They are movers, believers, and healers.
They are lovers, they're fighters, and dreamers,
And they are human, so very human,
And it's human we're meant to be.

There are people in our world,
With passion in their eyes,
And wisdom on their lips,
And power in their lives.

They walk the journey, too.
The torrents have been crossed.
With mountains still to climb;
Their dream is never lost.

They are movers, believers, and healers.
They are lovers, they're fighters, and dreamers,
And they are human, so very human,
And it's human we're meant to be.

It's not for glory or power or gain;
It's not for that ego, the money or fame.
It's the present; it's for the future,
And for us to fan the flame.

Poetic Gift for December

The Light We Sought

Her Star Shines Bright
Both Day and Night
Sun and Moon Dare not Challenge
For as she Sleeps
Her Dreams so Sweet,
Her Life Held in the Balance
She seems so Strong
Her Heart Belongs
Soaring Higher on Silk Wings
She'll Make you Weep
Beauty so Sweet
She Makes the Angels Sing
But Loves Special Pain
And all its Gains
Can Blind us to our Fears
Suffer Not
The Light we Sought
Will Lead us from our Tears

~ Written By Connie ~